Heartbroken and needing help!

[Truegritter]

Grit posted it on his thread recently. Maybe he will be so kind as to bring it over here.

Cat I think this what you were referring to:

It was written by a prophet ( I have never heard of this dude)
Kahlil Gilbran

But let there be spaces in your togetherness
And let the winds of the heavens dance between you

Love one another, but make not a bond of love:
Let it rather be a moving sea between the shores of your souls
Fill each other's cup but drink not from one cup.
Give one another your bread but eat not from the same loaf

Sing and dance together and be joyous,but let each one of you be alone,
Even as the strings of a lute are alone, though they quiver with the same music.

Give your hearts, but not into each other's keeping for
Only the hand of Life can contain your hearts.
And stand together yet not too near together:
For the pillars of the temple stand apart,
And the oak tree and the cypress grow not in
each other's shadow.