TimeHeals, Going to reread my co-dependency book on detaching, see if that helps me any.
ConfusedWife, I just wanted to talk to them to get a feel for H's mindset. I know their loytalties lie with him, even though both disagree with what he's doing to me. I'm not planning on helping with the D at all.
New thread: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2112303