Buffet, really tough one and I'll be watching closely. At least in a way you've already gotten what a lot of us want -- an admission the WAS was wrong.
My aunt left my uncle decades ago -- we've been talking a lot this year -- and about a year after leaving she wanted to go home. He said no. He had a new woman in his life. They are still together but never married.
It devastated my aunt, who didn't really recover for 10 years. There times together have always been strained.
I heard from a friend at work how he and his wife reunited. He was out of the house for eight months. She'd tossed him after he cheated on her. She finally allowed him back -- one night a week for the first month, then two, then three.
She wanted to see if he was really committed.
Is she still blaming OM instead of herself? That's one thing I'd be wary of. I don't know. In my case, I would want that second honeymoon -- maybe that's too much to ask.
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