Can you see that now that you're through, she would like to reap those benefits in the form of an engaged and present husband and father? Does she see you instead continuing to build your career at the expense of that?
NO! I don't see that. I was willing to give it all up -- and she didn't want that.
If I'm not mistaken, you only considered giving it all up after she left. I'm suggesting that she needed to see that commitment before. What do you think?
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Do you know that the harder thing to do and the right thing to do are usually the same thing? Nothing that has meaning is easy. ~ The Weather Man
