Thanks, PDT.

It was going to be one of my boundaries as far as the "primary care parent" notifying the other if D wasn't going to be at home in her bed.

I'm tired of D being treated like a "gypsy" when W has her and a "leper" when she doesn't.

And the banking is going to next. I need to stop conributing to her activities and begin compiling my own "egg"; or at least insuring it is spent on D and I.

The personal boundary will be "leave the room to read or send text msgs'

I'd love some "sample scripts for the "childcare rules" and "banking"

Can you recommend anyone to suggest some?

Thanks again, Puppy