Thanks, Pup and Bluestar. Dd is with H - he told me he was taking her to park and dinner. I think that "won't tell you garbage" was an attempt to just get my goat. He was kind and nice when he got here in front of daughter. Our dd normally goes to sleep at 7:30 during school year, but we let her stay up later in summer. She normally goes to bed 9 or 9:30 and gets up at 9 or 9:30 in the AM. For good or bad, this seems to work better with the flow of summer fun activities.
His nice guy moves in front of dd tell me he doesn't know that I exposed at his work yet. Wondering what the timeline is normally like - guess those I sent email to probably have to chat about what they will do.
So, can I get some help in advance for what to say to him when he comes at me for exposing?
-What if he loses his job? What do I say then? -What if he is just angry and embarrassed?
How much R convo should I get into and how quickly, if he wants to go there? Or do I just insist we do it with a MC present? Or not at all until he agrees to no contact or marriage counseling?
