"If you want out honey, then maybe that is for the best. I can handle anything life brings before me. I am a big boy. I will be just fine." Then continue to make necessary changes while setting her free. Do the changes silently without bragging or bringing them up. Don't worry. They notice.. Set her free..
Women are ATTRACTED to men with EMOTIONAL STRENGTH... strength in times of stess. Strong when all around them is crumbling.. THAT is the strength she will respond to. For a good example go back and read ALL of Coach's threads and his journey..