You do need a support system but I would not try and get your H's family to side with you at this time...let them figure it out!
From your registered date, you are still new at this and detachment does not happen overnight! It is easier said than done! Keep reading other people's threads...I was the same as you "this can't be happening!" was going through my head over and over
Please don't help him at all with the D...don't agree to a DIY divorce! You need to think about YOU and your kids (if there are any).
Your H is in a hurry to D...don't help him at all...let him do the work..he is the one that "thinks" he wants it!
Hang in there sweetie!!!
M48 H53 M16 T18 S16 D13 SS30 H drops bomb PA/8-30-09 H leaves 12-30-09 D filed by H 2-10 H asks to come home 4-11 Piecing