Really me being stronger was an issue because I normally was too strong part of my 180 was being more gentle and compassionate.
You are like most men in your situation. You have confused "too strong" with being the right kind of "strong" to a woman..
I know quite a few very strong men who are also gentle and compassionate.. They are not exclusive of each other. Too strong is more than likely "bull headed and inflexible, argumentative and always mad or unhappy with her or something she did or said.".. that isn't what "strong" should be for a man.
