Darn, this place is getting chock full of attractive, kick-ass women wearing shades and the most amazing shoes. Ughs, and I'm still married smile.

Kidding aside, it's good to see the immense personal growth and empowerment in you Kara, and you, RW.

I, too have been too close to that particular dynamic of walking away from what was supposed to be sacred, to not understand what you must be feeling. But the subjugation of the fear, the apprehension, and just knowing you can only do your level best and accept what God puts in your life, is liberating.

Don't just drive away; I hope you'll make frequent pitstops here.


Me 42
W 39
Married: 11 Jan 1998, T: Since 1992
First Bomb: Sep 2007
Confirmed A/OM: 4 Nov 2007
Kids: D10, S5
Reconciled and together again after (alot of) time and heartbreak.
3rd kid, S, born 2 Jan 2010.