Would it be considered setting appropriate "boundaries" for me to tell the WAW that she needs to stop bringing her new man to things like OUR DD's counseling sessions, OUR kids Bday parties, etc ??
When we were negotiating the custody agreement, one of the concessions she made was that there would be certain occasions where HE would NOT be involved. Unfortunately I was dumb enough to just take her word for it instead of getting it in writing, because I wasnt trying to antagonize the sitch.
Well DD's Bday party comes up on 8/21. And tonite he was there for the counseling. NOT actually part of it, but drove WAW there, was in the waiting room , etc. It REALLY pissed me off, the way she is throwing him in my face every chance she gets, although I didnt let on that it was. I basically ignored him.
But if I bring it up, Im certain she'll just use the old excuse about how she "cant be around me alone right now ". Just the other day when she brought the kids back and picked up some last minor things she had another guy friend with her then also.
Like I said, Im getting REALLY sick and tired of his constant presence and feel like I have the right to say as much, the flip side is I dont want her to know that he's getting to me with his presence either. Its quite the conundrum.
