Depressed H wants to walk

[ReelingW/aSmile]

So, how do some of you get your WAS to hear what you actually say and not their warped interpretation of what they think you mean???

My H filters everything through his depressed filter. He twists the meaning of things so that he thinks I am always being critical of him.

I've occasionally stopped him and asked what he thought I said, or what he thought I meant. I have been amazed with his horribly negative responses!