Yes, you are still in the very early stages of this.
I would say I still haven't drawn hard lines. I haven't needed to. H live 60 miles away maybe texts or calls them during the week. We see him 1 day a week when he comes to visit D's.
I did make it clear sometime back that when someone else enters the picture, things will change. I did not go into detail as to what those changes would be. I am clear in my own mind what they will be. Will put it on the table when I need to.
The advantage of this (for me) is that I have had lots of time to think about it and I will not be resonding out of anger.
I'm not sure I understand what you mean by flexible. Flexible does not however mean wishy washy.
