YOur Husband SR is not going to believe he's being used.. he's addicted to a romantic fantasy that everyone is enabling... He's on cloud nine.. you think he's going to land that plane because you tell him he's out of gas?
Nope, he's going to wait to see it crash into a mountainside like every other addict does...
Addicts end their addictions when they hit rock bottom, not when they are soaring above the cities every night...
I know - I've tried telling him again and again to no avail. So I've stopped.
Once the affair is over and OW is gone, I'm going to pull out the evidence I have - OW's OWN words, both in writing and from a conversation I taped with her - and share it with WH. He will be ticked!
I may not be able to stop the affair now while he's addicted, but I CAN destroy any professional relationship they have in the future. Without his support, she'll crash and burn. She'd have washed out already if it weren't for him.
The female faculty refer to her as "whoralina" and "da ho" - wonder how bad it's going to get once WH withdraws his support and they REALLY get nasty! Lol!
