I am NOT saying no to exposure with porn addiction.. I am saying
If it has gotten to the point where that is neccessary, then we do what we must to improve the health of the family
Bear in mind as well that exposing also embarasses both spouses... I have seen very few people who want to reveal to their friends and family that their spouse is mounting someone else in secret... It's not something anyone enjoys sharing from what I've seen...
Its humiliating and for men especially it is immasculating... Women may experience something similar. Having no vigina, I can't comment... lol
