YOur Husband SR is not going to believe he's being used.. he's addicted to a romantic fantasy that everyone is enabling... He's on cloud nine.. you think he's going to land that plane because you tell him he's out of gas?
Nope, he's going to wait to see it crash into a mountainside like every other addict does...
Addicts end their addictions when they hit rock bottom, not when they are soaring above the cities every night...