ssmguy, if your woman has never orgasmed it is possible she has a mental block. My ex wife had this, this mental block also tied to repressed sexuality. I'm not sure how we got past it, but once she started enjoying orgasm and doing it on her own her sexuality increased lots.
Yeah, if I could ever convince her of that, it seems like it would be huge progress. I got her a book on it years ago, and she totally refused to even look at it. She said I was only thinking about sex for myself and that feeling pressured to be sexual was a huge turn off. The logic, of course, is perfect -- if I pressure her to be sexual, then that's a turn off and makes her feel even less interested in sex. And you know, if you have zero interest in sex, her logic kind of makes sense!
