I'm told H and OW's R was passionate and intense for about a year and a half. I have no idea how he feels about her now. They broke up last fall. I'm almost afraid to ask because he was brutally honest when we talked about it two months into withdrawal.

And yes, I'm a woman and a total sportsfan. My H is the WS. Easy mistake. wink Thank you for the info Puppy.

Now if I could just figure out how to try to reconcile while separated.


Me - Faithful wife
H - WAH
Bomb: Fall/2009 - PA/EA with OW for 1 year
Both in our early 40's
M - 16 years w/ no kids
T - 21 years
Separated since July of 2008 - H living with his mother