But what if the HD partner thinks that what the LD partner isn't enough and demands more even though the LD partner is giving as much as they can. Then it becomes a matter of selfishness. Give and take. All a part of free will.
And my wife would say she can't give any sex, so I'm asking for more than she can give and therefore I'm selfish.
So you might then respond that, well, you didn't mean it was OK to give ZERO sex. But then who determines how much sex is reasonable? So now you're right back where you started because this is exactly what the husband and wife disagreed about in the first place.
