IDK! Under usual conditions I would say yes...a well-planned, carefully exposed affair is a good thing. BUT add MLC and the inter-family issue...yuk!
I feel really bad for th enephew. Are you close? How would he take the news from you? He may find out anyway. Will he be upset w/ you for not saying something to him earlier? How would you handle that? What if you threatened exposure to the 19 year old? Told her you would hate to hurt nephew but you will blow her secret sky high if she doesn't stay away from your H OR if H finds out about this convo w/you. This should end her A w/ your H, but odds are in MLC, he will find another. Maybe that is what he is doing with the other one...getting her in line so to speak.
"If you strike me down, I will become more powerful than you can possibly imagine!" 1st thread
