[quote=Joeli] I know that their really is no PA no matter how much I've tried to think otherwise she's not that type of person and yes I had access to everything at one point and even now if I wanted(obviously she might have changed a few passwords but unlikely) and the only EA is with her mom and an ex co-worker who is female and 60+. So time isn't an issue nor is another man. [/quote
I would strongly advise you re-check. Things (and people) change. If she's changed her passwords, then that will be a huge red flag.
I'm curious; why did you feel the need to apologize to her about challenging her about her wedding rings? Do you REALLY think you were in the wrong, or is your comment about her "getting mad" the telling one? Do you often do (or not do) things just so your wife "doesn't get mad"???
I suspect she wants you to be stronger. Women don't find it very attractive when a man backs down all the time. They dont' want an ASS, but they do want someone who will stick up for themselves when they feel strongly about something.
