So I should say nothing about the OW? Should I expose the secret affair H is having, or just keep my mouth shut? I am thinking I should NOT expose the affair because it will just give him MORE justification to treat me so nasty and it will bring them CLOSER. But I have also read that what makes their type of affair so appealing is the secrecy and it will usually last longer... ?
M: 34 WAH: 38 (in MLC) Together: 11 years Married since: November 2000 DS: 15 DS: 11 DS: 10 ILYBINILWY: Dec. 2009 Living separately since: April 2010
