Yes, I did have it backwards. But I talked to L who said basically it won't do me any good to look door unless I file something - H can break down door or call sheriff to make me open door. Not interested in that drama. So, I'm going to MIL's while I weather what's going on. Also talked to her before sending exposure email. She didn't like the idea but made it clear she supports me. I sent it anyways. Hoping for the best. Not sure how soon I'll get back to a computer. Thanks, everyone, for your help today.
