Yes, I am 27. W is going to be 25 tomorrow. I was 17 and W was 14 when we meant.

It's funny, you all say "your young you got your whole life ahead of you" and here I am saying "I'm old"


Can there be a happy medium?

What I mean is. Friend I work with invited me and my W to join him at a show. I asked W if she would like to join us W replied "if you want to go" and I said "I'm going." Leaving the decision up to my W if she wants to join or not if she said no I would still go. Is that wrong? To invite her at this point?

Also While I was sitting back in another room in the house reading all your posts and trying to take it all in W had txt me "Where are you" as she was downstairs. I eventually made my way downstairs and W said "I am hungry there is nothing to eat." I said in return "Your right there is nothing" and then walked into the kitchen. Usually I would have offered suggestions and/or provided a solution. I would say that my W said "i'm hungry" or "there nothing to eat" at least 15 times after that and I said nothing...she was talking to herself so I just let her talk to herself.


M: 27, W: 25
Together since: 01/31/00
M: 10/4/09 (8 Months)
ILBNILWY: 01/24/10
EA confirmed: 02/10/10 (Busted).
Road to Reconcile began: 07/10/10
Retrouvaille: 09/10/10