I wouldn't call myself a "cooler head" but how about a ... female approach?
So I put myself in her shoes - and I'm going out. I've been toying with you and I'm not dumb....I know what I'm doing to you. So I'm going out and I would fully expect you to be home, blood boiling, wringing your hands, mad and hey, pal...serves you right for the lousy partner you've been all these years. Now it is my turn.
What I wouldn't expect - and what would GET MY ATTENTION - would be to come home to a babysitter b/c FFH went OUT, too!!!! Then my blood would boil, I would wring my hands and talk about mad?! I'd be waiting up for YOU!
And where will you go? Dinner. Even if you have to go alone. Then go to the LATE MOVIE. Then go for a drink. But goooooo out! Pay the sitter in advance so if W comes home before you, there's nothing for her to take care of. If you come home before her, don't worry - she'll know you went out. #1 is your little one will spill. #2 the instructions for the sitter will still be on the counter.
If I were her...and you did that...we'd be talking first thing in the morning if not sooner. Greek
Me45 H46 T25 M22 S21 & 19 D13 Separated and filed 8/08 Moved home 11/08
