Like I said, he lives 400 miles away, so she will need to have alot of prep and scheduling to get this to work without me "knowing" what is up.
If I blow it wide open and confront her, as well as tell her parents, she is going to have to go down there with everyone FULLY knowing what is happening.
Plus, she will know that once she gets back, she is now responsible for the FULL mortgage, as well as me contacting his chain of command for adultery.
She doesn't like the idea of me "telling" her what she can and can't do. I don't. I set boundaries and she has a fit when she wants to cross one.
And the worst thing is that now they will probably start right up with the emotional/sex chat stuff, and move into phone and skype sex.
Once he feels it is OK to contact her again, she is going to want to do all they had planned while they are apart, before I exposed what they were doing.
Last edited by Quicksilver264; 06/30/1009:13 PM.
Me - 32 Her -30 Married - 7 Years Together - 9 Years No Kids 05/21 - Bomb 6/8 - Exposed 7/9 - Re-Exposed 06/11 - She Filed