"she doesn't want to stay and she is the one who has decided there is something more important to her than her family."
DO NOT say this part. The family may be very important to her. Just not you. For the future welfare of your kids, do not make it sound like she doesn't love them. I'm sure she does. She just doesn't love you.
It's hard to not take it personal, but your kids deserve to still love their mother without feeling guilty about it. And they shouldn't feel they are being abandoned by her because they're dad is insecure.
Control yourself and be the better person even if you don't want to. Your kids need that example of you as a responsible father.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
