OK just to be CLEAR on the plan here, because I have a half-full clip an NO RELOADS.
Tonight I gather ALL the intel I can.
1) Tomorrow I call her mom and say "Well I have indisputable proof XXXX is going on or about to happen. I can't tell you who told me, but it is a very trusted person who wants to stay out of this. They see and know what is going on and thought I should know".
2) I message the Facebook guy and tell him I warned him That's it. I then contact the right people and let them know he is a dirtbag.
3) I prepare for the firestorm that follows. She was TICKED last time I exposed saying "You come to ME with your problems and don't contact and involve my friends or threaten them". I also prepare for absolute Hell and continued persistance on her part to win the other guy over. 3 weeks have paid off for her, so she will assume 3 or 6 more weeks will achieve the same result.
4) Pray and hope this works. Not let me FEELINGS get the best of me.
Any other suggestions?
Me - 32 Her -30 Married - 7 Years Together - 9 Years No Kids 05/21 - Bomb 6/8 - Exposed 7/9 - Re-Exposed 06/11 - She Filed