OK just to be CLEAR on the plan here, because I have a half-full clip an NO RELOADS.

Tonight I gather ALL the intel I can.

1) Tomorrow I call her mom and say "Well I have indisputable proof XXXX is going on or about to happen. I can't tell you who told me, but it is a very trusted person who wants to stay out of this. They see and know what is going on and thought I should know".

2) I message the Facebook guy and tell him I warned him That's it. I then contact the right people and let them know he is a dirtbag.

3) I prepare for the firestorm that follows. She was TICKED last time I exposed saying "You come to ME with your problems and don't contact and involve my friends or threaten them". I also prepare for absolute Hell and continued persistance on her part to win the other guy over. 3 weeks have paid off for her, so she will assume 3 or 6 more weeks will achieve the same result.

4) Pray and hope this works. Not let me FEELINGS get the best of me.

Any other suggestions?


Me - 32
Her -30
Married - 7 Years
Together - 9 Years
No Kids
05/21 - Bomb
6/8 - Exposed
7/9 - Re-Exposed
06/11 - She Filed