Thanks Allen and Pup (and newmama for redirecting me).
My H just texted and asked if I was still not letting him see dd at home. Said he'd be here at 6. I responded: "That is fine. Let me know where you are taking her and what time she will be home."
His response: "I don't have to tell u where. That's a downfall to cutting off communications with me. And I'll bring her back prob just after 9."
Called a locksmith and got a 2:30 apt. He agreed that the house could be my space. Just called a local lawyer (one I talked to before) - will try to get a consult with him ASAP.