What is it that you all would consider 'success'? What would need to happen or be said for it to be successful or progress?
Success in my books would be for you to start living your own life and not have it hanging on:
- every word your WAW says - every expression on her face - every grunt and snort she utters - every whine and whimper she mutters
Here's one thing I've seen.. (I'm not up to speed on your entire thread but I have read your posts from time to time)
Whatever you have done so far has been bending over backwards to please HER... you have done very little to please yourself.
You want success?
Stop living for her and start living and doing things for you. (Pssst... it's called getting a life) Things that you enjoy, bring you pleasure and satisfy you - IRRESPECTIVE of how that will affect your WAW.
M:11 | T:12 | Status: Married 4C's of WAS communication: Cool, Calm, Collected and CONFIDENT
