My Wife is Having an Affair with Co-Worker

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I did expose the affair to her work too, but there was no change, and they said they would do nothing about it because it a personal issue for me and her.

I have been doing everything I am able to think of.

I am detached and do not pursue. It is very difficult at this point because what I have done is not working.

It has only pushed them closer together. It started as an EA and now is a PA.

I am at the point where just have to let go completely.

We do have court hearing at the beginning of August.

I have made many mistakes along the way. I got caught up in a made up consequence if we D and this was the wrong thing to do. It has further driven her away and gave her reason to want to be out the door for good.

I made this mistake, but I have done fairly well of keeping the detaching going.