My own mom thinks telling his work is extreme, and she'd like to cut his -------- off. I think his parents would try to talk me down, but would deal with it if I said: I did x because y. Don't think they'd support him. They've expressed that it is very important to them to maintain R with my daughter and me - dad is trying to get me to come over for weekly dinners with dd, he offered me their extra house in the area if I just needed to get out of family home, etc. His mom said she thinks something is wrong with H's head. In my gut I feel that they will not side with H even if they wish I hadn't contact his job.
