"LD causes agony in an HD when they are not respectful of their needs. I mean should we do things in relationship that we know cause agony in others?"

The reverse is also true you know. It comes down to give and take. There are times when you give even if you don't want to and there are times that you give when you do. It's as simple as that.

Whether it's sex, money, attention, etc., everyone's got different needs in varying levels of priority. Yet everyone has free will to give and take as they choose. There may be times that the LD partner gives even when they're not in the mood and they're not telling the HD partner that they're not into it. They do it because it makes the other person happy. But what if the HD partner thinks that what the LD partner isn't enough and demands more even though the LD partner is giving as much as they can. Then it becomes a matter of selfishness. Give and take. All a part of free will.


M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

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