What your H will do most likley if he finds out you are going to expose is he will start telling everyone at work you are having mental problems or something like that.. And that you may try to contact management with some crazy stories.. He will WARN those managers to IGNORE YOU
This is why you dont' want to give your H any warning.. etiher by his parents warning him or by ccing him... He could get to the mgrs before they get to their email... you don't want your H to KNOW that you are exposing.. you want the exposure TARGETS to deal with him for him to find out...
This is also a great way for YOU to find out that they DID something about it... HE will CALL you and BLAST YOU.. be ready for it
