He is in the Military. When I messaged him, he thought I threatened to tell his chain of command and that set him off. My wife found out through a mutual friend, and she went BALLISTIC.

He basically ignored her for 3 weeks, but during that time she kept at it and I guess her saying she wanted to visit him SOON was enough for him to reply. He figures he can have sex in the near future, so why not.

Now I don't know for sure yet. I'll have to wait until tonight when they chat online, or look at the call logs and see how long they talk. But I am certain that she is floating on air right now because he finally replied.

For all I know, she may say she wants to visit in 2 weeks, and he will say not until after the divorce because he is scared I will report him.


Me - 32
Her -30
Married - 7 Years
Together - 9 Years
No Kids
05/21 - Bomb
6/8 - Exposed
7/9 - Re-Exposed
06/11 - She Filed