My H is living who knows where. He likes to be able to hang out with daughter in our home. He has next week off and was really hoping I would leave to go see my mom so he could stay with dd in our home. I said no way. You can come pick her up and then drop her back off. If you want her for the week you will have to find somewhere to take her. Told him it might be time for him to get an apt. because for my mental health I needed my own space at this time given his choices. Can't have continuing contact with him while A is going on. This may have the effect of "raising the bottom" because it makes him face the reality of what a divorce will be like. Also prevents cake eating with getting affair life and home life. But, I don't really wanted my dd trotted thru all his single friends' homes - not that I object to any of them, per se, but it stinks for her. I think I am going to tell him that he needs to disclose where he is taking her and it needs to be a suitable environment for a young girl.
