Okay Allen - should I then avoid cc'ing partners/managers that are like to share with H? I also know that there are some partners/managers that don't get along with H - thought they might be good ones to know because they'll want to see enforcement. But then again, that might just be mean . . .
Also would like suggestions on timing: I don't want his mom to hear from him that I did that before I tell her. So, do I: 1) send it right before going to her place? I am going to try to see her tonight while H has my daughter.
