Just Confronted - A Litttle Confused

[Quicksilver264]

I get that Puppy. But the thought of my wife having sex with another man just curls my blood and drops out my stomach.

Her mom told me that on Saturday that my wife said to her "Maybe I need to take a step back". HOWEVER, my wife lied to the face of her mom when she said her and the other guy were through. She texted him on the same day. So who knows what to believe anymore.

Let's assume she can't go see him for at least another 2-3 weeks. Still, they are now TALKING again. That leaves Facebook sex chat. phone sex, and Skype sessions. Which is exactly where it was headed when I exposed and blew it open.

I guess I get the fits and starts. But it REALLY does suck. So this is normal with a WAS in an EA wanting to go PA?

The patience thing is hard too. But I don't see how this is going to work out should she continue talking to him. She will then get her "high", and figure out a way to go and see him.

I WOULD warn her parents that' she is potentially in danger and hoooking up with men she has never met for sex.... she could end up wtih her throat cut... they MUST care about that.. I would be warning them.. especially if you have proof he's a sleazeball...

He is an old highschool flame and she has known him for like 15 years. I don't think it is that. She reconnected with him on Facebook, and when she became unhappy, they started getting all intimate online. He offered for her to come see him so they could have sex.

Now she kept up messaging him after the exposure, and she is pursuing him to the ends of the Earth.