I'm guessing though that she is just going to dig her heels in...despite everything she has said... about moving here.
IMO - you are right. She may dig her heels in. This is all part of the sense of entitlement that she has. For me, it helps when I try to look at things from her perspective. Even if I do not agree. Right now, she may feel like she is loosing her kids, right now she feels like you may not have been as involved as you believe you were, right now she wants control. She may be feeling all of this and you can understand; however, you need to do what is in the best interest of you and the kids. Just make sure you are not doing it to win her back or to hurt her. Do it for the kids.
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I am afraid
God do I now this fear. Nothing you can do IMO to make it go away.. just take it day by day.
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I wish I knew what her real plans were a year ago... I wish I knew what type of person she really was and is.
Don't we all...don't we all..guess what though...you will be better because of this. You will.
Now go fight for your babies!
Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
