I already talked to her mom about it, BUT I didn't let on that I had the actual messages. I CANT give away my big source of intel.

I told her about what my wife said in our conversation, and the way she said it. Her mom told me that my wife said there was absolutely no guy anymore. I reiterated just what I heard from my wife.

She thinks it is completely wrong, but wants me to confront my wife about it and lay down the boundaries.

Gosh, my FEELINGS are telling me to confront her tonight on the phone.

I KNOW when she gets back to the hotel, the FIRST thing she will do is call that guy, or message him, or setup a Skype conversation. She has already texted 3 friends today after she got that message. They are her close friends, and she probably is bubbling over with excitement that he finally is talking to her again.


Doesn't that put me back at SQUARE 1 where I was 3 weeks ago?


Me - 32
Her -30
Married - 7 Years
Together - 9 Years
No Kids
05/21 - Bomb
6/8 - Exposed
7/9 - Re-Exposed
06/11 - She Filed