So...I thought I would write an update. I'm filing! I never thought I would be so happy but I am. I am in the process of retaining my lawyer and filling out all the paper work. I am filing for adultery and hopefully it will go quickly. WH does not know that I know about everything that happened after he left and so he is going to be shocked when he is served.

I'm a little irritated because he is still withdrawign small amounts of money from our billing account and transferring them to his own account. I'm not sure if it is worth it to say something to him right now about it.