There are biblical verses that say its not an option to deprive your spouse except by mutual consent.
I am aware of those verses. And I assume a wife who subscribes to them will get a certain satisfaction from having sex with her husband even if she gets no sexual pleasure from it. But what if she doesn't subscribe to them?
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I'm not a fan of the LD/HD dynamic where the LD is allowed to starve down the HD to nothing.
What does it mean to say that "the LD" is "allowed" not to hvae sex? No one needs permission not to have sex. Do you mean you're not a fan of relationships where the LD person refuses to have sex and is not made to admit inadequacy, or shoulder blame, or feel guilty about it, or suffer some punishment? What would be the point of all that? Who benefits from it?
LD causes agony in an HD when they are not respectful of their needs. I mean should we do things in relationship that we know cause agony in others?
