Recently X got her feelings hurt because it was DS's bday and I had custody that week. Her solution to this is to seek full custody thus preventing it from happening again. She actually asked DD which one of us she would like to live with given the choice. This upset DD who came to me about it (how I found out). So now I get to deal with the possibility of this fight while cleaning up the emotional damage of X's selfish actions. Like I said, it sucks and just keeps on sucking.
The Karma in this is both children have told me they didn't tell X but they would rather live with me than her (and new husband). I have not confronted X with the impropriety of her question to the kids or the disappointment she will face if she presses the matter.
Keep doing your best to protect them as much as you can. I would leave it up to your X when it comes to repairing and improving her relationship with them though.
I wouldn't say anything or confront her on this matter. I wouldn't say a word. If she presses for custody let her find out all on her own.
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I'm angry, I'm sad and the best part is it looks like this nightmare will never end.
I understand this completely. Please be careful, make sure your actions and words aren't fueled by this. Keep working hard and find healthy ways to release this.
I know the whole feeling of it never ending too. I don't believe it ever totally will when there are children involved. I do believe it gets better though.
I have no desire to share my life with my ex. None.
Sharing and being a part of the children's lives will never end. Keep working hard for their sake. Keep showing them better.
