I think you're right, NewMama - DB coach told me the same thing and Larry said to expect more bad than good as WH tries to sort it out. But (as my father used to say) "I've slept since then" and it all went out of my head! Thanks for the reminder!
I still think his biggest problem is that he ran his mouth at work, got a committee together to justify leaving me, and now that we're back to having a pleasant relationship, that committee keeps telling him he's going soft, it's a trick, etc.
I haven't told WH that I've sought help and am working with a counselor...I wonder if that would make a difference to him? As Allen says, "Show by example."
