Just Confronted - A Litttle Confused

[Quicksilver264]

My goal is to PREVENT her from going in the first place.

The plan of exposure was to end the emotional affair, and it worked for about 3 weeks. Now because she is soooooo stubborn in what she wants, she managed to say enough to him to peak his interest. She basically said she wants to visit him to have sex. What single guy is going to turn down no strings sex?

If I wait until AFTER she leaves, she is still going to go and have sex with him. That takes it from an emotional affair to a physical one.

And I do have ROCK SOLID intel. I have the messages. But if I let her know that, then any chance for intel down the road is gone.

I DO NOT want this man having sex with my wife.