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Am I supposed to pretend he doesn't exist? Or is it ok that I ask him his opinion/help on child rearing questions? This is why I do want to get married again. Raising a kid by yourself is doable but it is DAMN HARD!!! So there is nothing wrong with me for wanting help! He gets to ask OW (barf puke moan!)


I would NOT ask him for advice. Does he know? or will he be giving you OW's advice? DO you really want her advice? Ughhh

There are too many books, sites, etc with more experienced advice. Health wise, I always relied on my pediatrician. Yes, I bugged his nurse endlessly with my first one! You are already educated in child development, and you have mother's intuition.




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