Red, my DB coach awhile back told me that when stbxh and I shared good times together, to expect him then to retreat after. Like he is putting up a wall to remind himself and me that no, he is with OW. No....this is confusing.
The coach wasn't just saying this for my "unique" situation- he said that it is what WASs do.
Just no pressure....go with the flow....let him pursue you...and trust your instincts! Think back to the dating days with anyone. Drop some crumbs, walk away, let them follow the crumbs to you! I can't wait to hear with Larry says.
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
