I said something briefly about 2 male colleagues who have offered help to me--of the "call anytime if you need anything and I'll come over", and one of them went to the lawyer appt with me for moral support and the other was over already once for a house problem. So my husband was incredulous at this. Not angry, just shocked, because he said "these are both MARRIED MEN. Won't their wives be angry or suspicious??" And I said "that's ludicrous. But clearly, it rattled him.
Newsflash Antonia's WH: There are LOTS of married men who can interact with other women without breaking their marriage vows. Maybe you should have tried it!
Originally Posted By: AntoniaB
When he came in he noticed that I was VERY dressed up in a pretty sexy dress that never fit till I lost 14 pounds in 14 days. Well he questioned this, and I said "I'm going out when you leave." He didn't say any more, but when he was walking out the door, he said "where was it you were going again?" And I said "that's for me to know...not your business." And he just got this look of shock on his face.
HA!
Reality check! Reality check! He's NOT the only man in the world. He's an OPTION.
I forgot one thing from that meeting, a weird little gem: at some point he said he had been thinking of inviting me over to the friend's house where he is living now to go swimming in the guy's pool. I said "are you kidding? So I can run into her?" He said "your path will never cross with hers. I will make sure of that." And I said "really? Go swimming with you?" And he said "Yes." I said "I don't think so."
What the heck??? Why?? How could he even suggest that? What's his purpose? Cake eating?
M45 Bomb 6/09; EA 6/10; Divorced 1/11 Proud single mom of 7 little feline girls and one little feline boy "Fall down 53 times. Get up 54." -- Zen saying
Is this really how guys think?! Break her heart, move out...and yet still want to see the new bod?
Sheesh!
Yup, its called cake eating.
Immature men like to have multiple women in play, its celebrated all over the media...
The amusing thing is, OW won't want this to be happening... If you ask me I would plan to go, send an invite to OW and have her show up to catch him in the pool with the wife... OW will be enraged! lol
That's the great thing about this if you have the strength for it... OW doens't want the cake eating anymore than the LBS does lol
The BEST weapon though is the truth... if you can get yoru H recorded voice inviting you to go swimming with him and then expose that to OW
To <insert OW's name here>
<insert H's name here> invited me to get a new bikini and go swimming with him... In the future please keep this cheating husband away from me... Can't you keep this guy on a leash? If I were you I would get myself tested, I am starting to wonder where else this man has been...
