When WAS discovers your posts here

[Ready2Change]

I like PDT's response.

A: "Considering where we are in our marriage right now, I needed some support from others who were going thru the same thing."

...And how can I legitimately distance and detach if WAS is reading everything I say?

I would like to suggest that you chose your words carefully when you post. Speak the truth. Do not let fear control you. If S is posting to you, validate with "I am sorry you feel that way". Set boundaries if needed.

I also know some people here change some facts without loosing the support. Does it really matter if I have my age as 43 or 39? If I list 5 kids vs 3. If I live in Colorado or Kansas? If I saw Spouse at baseball game vs .....How much reading would WAS need to do while searching for your thread...They might learn something on the way...

Everything happens for a reason.