Just Confronted - A Litttle Confused

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Should I confront my wife about it then?

Here is what I was thinking when we talk on the phone tonight:

"I thought alot about what you said last night, and I realized that you said more than you intended to. I know you are planning to visit him, and the way you spoke absolutely gave it away. You and I both know what the truth is, so I am simply not going to argue about that."

"I cannot live in an open marriage, nor can I live in the same house where someone CONSTANTLY deceives and lies to me. So, if you visit him despite our agreement not to see other people, and us still being married, I plan to move out of this house. Our State law allows me to move out, and YOU will be 100% responsible for the mortgage. I cannot be held financially liable for a place I don't live in in this State."

"There are just some things I am not willing to accept, and this is one of them. You will have to sell the house, for which I am entitled to half of everything less the months I did not pay the mortgage. Your decisions have consequences, so you will have to think very hard about the future decisions you have to make."


Now I can move out and not be responsible for the mortgage, which will force her to sell. It will be a COMPLETE nightmare for her, but I am setting boundaries and am willing to level consequences should she cross them.